someone told mi this...

有一只小鸡破壳而出的时候，刚好有一只乌龟经过，从此以后小鸡就背着蛋壳过了一生！
棗其实脱离沉重的负荷很简单，放弃固执和成见就行了。

有个小弟在脚踏车店当学徒。有人送来一部坏了的脚踏车，小弟除了将车修好，还把车子擦拭得漂亮如新，其他学徒笑他多此一举。车主将脚踏车领回去的第二天，小弟被挖到他的公司上班。
棗原来出人头地很简单，吃点亏就行了。

有头小猪向神请求做他的门徒，神欣然答应。这时刚好有一头小牛由泥沼里爬出来，浑身都是泥。神对小猪说："去帮他洗洗身子吧！"小猪诧异的说"我是神的门徒，怎么能去伺候那脏兮兮的小牛呢？"神说"你不去伺候别人，别人怎么知道你是我的门徒呢？"
棗原来要变成神很简单，只要真心付出就行了。

有几个小孩很想当天使，上帝给他们一人一个烛台，叫他们保持烛台光亮。结果几天过去了，上帝都没来，几乎所有的小孩都不再擦拭那烛台，有一天上帝突然造访，他们每个人的烛台都蒙上了厚厚的灰尘。只有一个小孩大家都叫他笨小孩，因为上帝没来，他也每天都擦拭，结果这个笨小孩成了天使。
棗其实当天使很简单，只要实实在在去做就行了。

有个小孩对母亲说："妈妈，你今天好漂亮。" 母亲问："为什么?" 小孩说："因为妈妈今天没有生气。"
棗原来要拥有漂亮很简单，只要不生气就行了。

有个牧场主人，叫他孩子每天在牧场辛勤工作，朋友对他说："你不需要让孩子如此辛苦，农作物一样会长得很好的。"牧场主人回答说："我不是在培养农作物，我是在培养我的孩子。"
棗原来培养孩子很简单，让他吃点苦头就行了。

有一个网球教练对学生说："如果一个网球掉进草堆，应该如何找？"有人说"从草堆中心线开始找。"有人说"从草堆的最凹处开始找。"教练说"按部就班地从草地的一头，搜寻到草地的另一头。"
棗原来寻找成功的方法很简单，从一数到十不要跳过就行了。

有一家商店经常灯火通明，有人问："你们店里用的是什么灯管？那么耐用？"店主回答说："我们的灯管也常常坏，只要常常更换就行了！"
棗原来保持明亮的方法很简单，只要常常更换就行了。

住在田里的青蛙："你这里太危险了，搬来和我住吧。"路边的青蛙说："我已经习惯了，懒得搬了。"几天后，田里的青蛙去探望路边的青蛙，却发现他已经被车子轧死，暴尸在路边。
棗原来掌握命运的方法很简单，远离懒惰就行了。

有一个人去应征工作，随手将走廊上的纸片捡起来，放进了垃圾桶，被路过的考官看到了，他因此得到了这份工作。
棗原来获得赏识很简单，养成好习惯就行了。

有一支淘金队伍在沙漠中行走，大家都步履沉重，痛苦不堪，只有一个人快乐的走着。别人问："你为何如此的惬意？"他笑着说："因为我带的东西最少。"
棗原来快乐很简单，拥有少一点就行了。

人生的光彩在哪里？ 早上醒来，光彩在脸上，充满笑容地迎接未来； 到了中午，光彩在腰上，挺直腰杆活在当下； 到了晚上，光彩在脚上，脚踏实地地做好自己。
棗原来人生也很简单，只要懂得知足、自然，你就拥有了生命的光彩。

Life before death = Journey...

yupz..i kw I cried hard w her in e show…coz I knew de pain of it…

As I tt I m numb, I realize I didt…
Is a battle btw my heart n mind…
wat a weak soul…

怎样的雨 怎样的夜
怎样的我能让你更想念
雨要多大 天要多黑
才能够有你的体贴
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iBGyF11fOnA

Happy 20th Birthday Seowhui!!!

Yes!!! my 8yrs besties turn 20 jus 24 hours ago!!!

Happy Birthday!!!

hope happiness, joy n love r always by ur side!!! =D

We bought her to a restuarant called 15 minutes on tues where we had our dinner there...we r so filled w artistic after dining at the place...haha if u wan to kw y, go to the restuarant...after tat, we decided to go to Coffee Nations to chill...such a nice place, where we had so much laughter n "intelligent" games...hope u like the celebration hui!!! ~we r still as crazy as ever~

Other den tat, de rest of the week jiu is work n tuition...cant wait for weekends!!! =D

n i think i forget to mention:

Cristiano Ronaldo is no longer a player of Man-u!!! good or bad lehz?
n i know tat happen a few weeks ago, forgive mi for the slow reaction...

its weekend again!!!

Yupz..its time for mi to enjoy again...
but i m guilty of not being at home w my family as well... =x

I start to get real busy @ work alrdy...i haven manage to finish any work b4 dateline! oppz...i wonder if i m going to get fired soon! haha n i wanna get ppl in to work as well...coz 1)many of my frenz r still looking for a job, 2) w frenz ard, i got more ppl to talk to...haha office become a little bit chatty w mi ard! i think they knew it on de first day i m there...=x n its reli tough to juggle btw work n tuition...luckily my kids r still as cute, thou they do make mi very angry at times...

little things in life...how often do we even rmb them? I dont...mayb until i lost it...
my little kid bought mi back to see those little things tat i overlooked for quite sometimes...
things tat u wont tt it matters at all...things tat somehow ppl take it for granted...
i wish i can become little again...

todae was a shopping day! n i finally get to meet up w my darling! do take good care, for she looked reli tired...Still, i had a great day, chitting w u makes my day, watsmore when we saw de "heart-shaped" fireworks tgt!!! =D

ard the world in one day!

Yeah..ytd thanks to my dear gal, angela, i got to visit a number of singapore attractions! actually, not alot also..we went to Asian Civilsation Museum & Mint Toys Museum onli...Toys museum! We (mi, angela, sihao n xinyi) became little children the moment we stepped into the museum...running, playing n jumping at the scene of those toys n decor...both of the museum r awesome!!! Did lots of phototaking n shall wait n let all those photos do the talking! heez =D

the best part of the day:

The Rain!
i kw its abit mafan n cui to b under e rain..but i feel as if i hav nth to worry, nth to bother, nth to think abt when i m under de rain...erm, this feeling is jus like "little children"...like those days when we were young...

Actually wanna take the flyer ride, but coz of the rain, we ended up at the arcade...=) didt manage to go to the national museum as well..next time! =D

=)

Finally, able to use internet again! my office internet is block..so no msn-ing, facebook-ing n net surfing during work..n u will see alot of them start using their phones, ipod etc to surf de internet..well, i dun hav one so i hav to wait till i m home to online!

anyway, work was ok so far..it jus keep mi very busy...still trying to cope w it n still making new frenz..they r all surprise tat i m so young..of which i didt kw to b happy or sad...but most of them r nice in terms of "out of office", during work-the ppl there r super serious n its kind of stress & scary...

yup..it was jus a small action, but u didt kw how great it was to mi...=D

time n galfrenz will fade everything...i so love this sentence!

Fireworks!

Went back for Cs agm on fri after work! heez after working, u will realise tat weekends r very impt...anw had a fun chit-chatting session w my batch ppl again at the agm...we even went back to club to take a look while they r having their "catching"...We went for dinner tgt at our old "la-teh" place...haha n jun wei did some stunts! Lol...wait till i upload the photos! anw after tat, i rush home to bath n met up w hui for club...was a last min thing n tat night was horrible...i guess all of us got drunk or semi-drunk!

anw i saw FIREWORKS!!! super clear view from my ROOM! hooray!!! i guess de fireworks was for the NDP preview thingy...i was so surprise! n my mum n mi got so excited! its a good view, clear n not blocked! the fireworks jus make my day! =D

The view from my room!!! hooray! i guess i m lucky tat day!

Ps, i m not a good photographer...=X

tuition..anyone???

Hey ppl,

as i got no time to ask ard, so i decided to ask over here...

I got a tuition assignment @ Jurong area..Pri 4, jus need to teach english and Math...anyone interested???

Msg mi ASAP!!! best b4 tml 7pm...

Sick...

i m starting work tml...but...

illness could u stay away from mi for awhile first...
let mi get all my things done first...
pls...

A fresh start...

I am going to start work this coming wed!!! as a Associate, Customer Service @ Great Eastern...dont ask mi wat is it...i myself also not very sure...oppz...i m so excited yet scare abt it!

Pray hard for mi tat everything will be good k? i hope i will be able to learn n produce good work, i hope its a friendly environmeny & i hope tat i will enjoy myself there! i also wonder if there will be any ppl ard my age there...i went there twice, once for the interview, another for the contract signing, n all i see r ppl ard the age of late 20s to 30s...cant believe tat i m actually stepping into the workforce in 1 day time!

But something to worry abt...currently, i got tuition on mon, wed, thurs, fri n sun!!! n i cant drop them for now..to think, its good to be able to be busy n earn lots of money! but i also wonder if my body could take all this...i hav to rush back for tuition straight after work n wat if i need to OT??? i didt kw wat to do for nw...lets see how for the time being ba! one thing for sure, my schedule will be super packed, w all the working, tutoring, gathering n partying!!! =X

The orange tunnel...

Nobody knew but him tat tats was my favourite place...i went thru it again tat night, n i still love tat place...

Meet up w xiaohua, seowhui n angela on thurs to celebrate Hua's 22nd bdae! We went timbre again...i love their live bands & pizzas...n i got my way right this time! i m happy for not losing my way... =X after tat, we met up w alex n his frenz n went to Zirca...club, drink & dance! n i realise, its nice to have bdae celebrations at club...anw the rest jiu leave it till i got the photos n let them do the talking!

Fri-- my little kid got a little request...he wanted a blue lollipop...heez had my tuition w this cute little boy b4 i went over to celebrate Joycelyn's 20th Bdae! We had a buffet at Quality Hotel..sounds class rite? haha anw had lots of fun & took lots of pictures...shall upload them soon, b4 they say i slow! haha Happy Advance 20th Birthday Joy! stay more glam..haha n of coz i didt forget the long chat i had w my darling...i love her!

Today i met up w angela at sun plaza, got the ingredients tat we needed n we went back to her house...we r preparing for our picnic! yummy yummy! Reached Marina Barrage abt 6pm, went to walk ard b4 settling down...n Yeah! i fly a kite! didt fly well thou but i m still happy abt it! A gal in front of us said to her father "daddy, did u see tat MINI kite?" Lol yes! my little kite! haha today, the sky is filled up w clear white clouds n many colourful kites! the wind is blowing gently, trying to ensure tat every kites can catch up w the pace...everything is so nice so prefect i tt...its a beautiful day! =D

Wondering...

I have my schedule all packed..i should said i had planned all the activities way b4 hand...mayb i m free coz i m not working, but i dont seem to be free...how come??? but go ahead n date mi! =D

someone told mi: " take things one at a time now...i kw it sounds trite, but just wake up in the morning and tell urself that u only have to be strong for one day. Just one day. N u did tat over n over again......"

i tt mayb tt would help a little...thanks anw...

anyway, Happy 22nd Birthday XiaoHua!!!

Happy Father's Day!!!

I went back to malaysia to rest & relax for the past few days... =)

Guess wat! i tried riding a motorbike!!! it was damn cool! at first, my cousin bring me out for a ride...it was fun till some irritating guys rode beside us n disturb! i think those who saw it, kw how scared i m den...we didt realise or even kw tat 2 bikes r following us until one of the 3 boys tried to pull mi off the bike! scary rite? i think i did scream abit but mostly laughing...coz my cousin rode so fast to escape away from them! yet the thoughts of them kipnapping us didt appeared in my mind at tat moment...but we r alright! n we didt dare to mention anything in front of our parents...shhh...my cousin ltr decide to teach mi how to ride...so i took over the driver seats! it was damn scary! but of coz fun n cool!!! i nw kw why so many ppl enjoy riding a bike at high speed! dangerous but nice! n i love it when the wind blow pass mi...anw the bike is auto so it wasnt difficult to learn... =D

Some photos to share:

my cute little cousin! did alot of phototaking w her..its all on fb... =)

her trying to carry a newborn baby...she always try to act like us (adults)...
All cousins!!!

Today! I went for my tuition this afternoon...taught 2 todae n i end at 7pm...den i hav to rush home again! coz i m cooking again for my daddy!!! but its a late dinner...oppz but hai hao i long prepare the ingredients properly b4 i went for my tuition...cook cook cook...n ta-ta!!! Dinner's ready! i saw the smile on everyone face...i kw they had a long wait...coz its alrdy 9pm! We had curry fish head, King of the pork n KangKong! all my daddy's favourite!

Happy Father's Day!!!

i love my daddy!!!

Ouch ouch ouch!!!

Ouch!

Someone left mi a painful cut ytd when i went swimming...
well, the pool is so crowded coz its school holiday... =X

Happy 21st Birthday Daphne!!!

its hard but i will/ m trying even harder...
i slow down a little...to think to wonder...
jus let it b...

The heart has its reasons which reason does not know.
~B. Pascal

updates!!!

I have been busy with gathering this weeks! its fantastic!

Mon, met up w my batch ppl for dinner at the hereen...why? coz our dear wilson and ben are enlisting this week...anw they r in alrdy...w sengyang and a few more...good luck guys! jia you as well! We ate thai express and went to the alps to chill after dinner...had a nice time w them...more catch up next time... =)

Tue is a day fill w music!!! i went singing w wilson, jane n huisan...lots n lots of unglam moments...too bad there's no camera to capture all tat! we eat like nobody business, sing like nobody cares n chat like we nv chat b4! they r simply wonderful! after kbox, i met hui for dinner at timbre! yupz, jus the 2 of us...for some er ren shi jie! haha the band tat day was amazing...it was cool! we had pizzas and we DIDT drink! anyway, we dont drink often...well, i dont...jus some time for the fun out of it..i am sure a good gal... =X

Wed...i went for 2 interviews! so scary...but i didt like both the job...so yupz, i m continuing searching...looking for a job i reli like n enjoy it! i believe i can find such job rite? haha then, i went off to meet xueli, shuting n huisan for dinner!!! it been ages since i met up w xl n st le...heez went for dinner at waraku...guess wat! i saw Vanny! so long since i met him...wonder how's his planning le...hehez den the 4 of us went to TCC to chill...chit-chatting, listening to xl's story and taking pictures! all photos are uploaded in fb...

Thurs was my day w the little boy again...he's cute but jus like little children, they cant seem to stop playing, running etc...but since its their holiday, less work for him! shall find out wat he like to bribe him..he doesnt like sweets...anw went to watch movie after tat! blood the vampire...

Fri, another out w my dearest hui n anglea...met alex first b4 i meet up de rest...n guess wat, i was running at city hall area! coz my dear angela fainted at her workplace! so mi n alex rush down to "save" her! she was alright when we reached...but gal, pls take care of urself...i kw "cpr" worz...hehez

Tml! Its daphne 21st bdae celebrations!!! shall update again... =D

what's hangover???

I went cycling again!!! did anyone know i jus pick up cycling like last yr! n i m enjoying it! this time i went w my darling n wilson...milk wasnt there...so sad..haha anw we cycled de same route, from ecp to changi jetty n this time round something special...we cycled till the SAF ferry terminal! we even saw parents and frenz coming out from there, which means a new batch of boys booked in tat day...wilson is going there on de coming thurs le...take care bro! after tat, i rush home coz i got tuition...was abit late but its ok...

On fri night, i met up w seowhui after her work...n i m not late! haha instead someone is super late! oppz...we had our dinner at Swensens, suntec city...n now they got a few new courses...i like it! youwei came to join us for dinner as well...after dinner, met up w raymond n we went to the arcade...

den we went to double o! my first time there...drank quite abit n dance till de fullest! oh, xinyan joined us at dblo too! i even saw calvin there...i heard he is booking in nxt week too...haha anyway, i must say raymond, youwei, xinyan n seowhui are good clubbing bubby...had so much of fun n now everyone know my favourite songs!!! oppz...after club, even greater, we went for supper at the prata house! hooray! but i was alrdy spinning...so didt reli enjoy my prata...i vomited de moment i alighted from de cab...hangover...but it was ok...

Jus a photo to share...wasnt successful w photo-taking...

randomsss...

I saw my new baby cousin! it's a girl... =D
everyone's so joyful!
there's one more coming in 2 months time!

how amazing time flies...

i convinced myself to believe:
for when there r things taken away from us, there will be things given to us too...
i will b waiting...for a new start, new story, a new mi...

but for now, can i jus dig a hole n hide all those feelings inside until i feel alright to take it out?
mayb i m alrdy doing it...jus dun let de hole get bigger...
i m struggling w my thoughts & feeling...its something tat i feel i never know wat to do...
i wan to be happy...

Post Graduation Celebration!

It was a long long day of activities for mi...

On wed night, it was de post-graduation celebration for mi n jane...tgt w seowhui, jane's bro n his frenz, we went for mambo night! haha so long since i club...met up w dionna first, den hui for dinner, met up w jane at the esplanade (wat a place =( ), b4 jane's bro pick us up to zouk! n ya, went to look for wilson n played w his dog, Milk!! actually the real name of the dog is not milk, but milk is a nice name for his dog! J will b so happy to see this!! m i right? haha mambo night was alright, not fantastic but nice enough...i think jane, hui n mi went crazy n super high somehow...didt manage to drink much bcoz i dun wanna wash car! haha truth is i m jus not good at drinking! argh! We left jane, her bro n frenz at ard 2 plus for soccer! my favourite player (hui's lao gong) is playing for that match! So we ended up at Chijmes, met up w raymond & his classmates to watch the match --Man U vs Barcelona...so glad tat all of them r Man U fans too! but Man U lost...still, its a interesting match w so many ppl ard...so many ppl screaming, supporting their team n putting on their fav teams jersey...den at 5am, it was home sweet home...

woke up early the nxt morning as i need to go bai bai for this dumpling festival thingy...i was so tired n sleepy tat i didt kw wats going on the whole morning..jus help out n do watever i m told to..oppz...after tat, my aunt bought us for afternoon tea...i miss those high tea i had in melbourne! no hot chocolate thou...manage to catch some slp b4 i went off for my tuition! tat little boy is super happy todae, coz tml is his last day of school! he smile so brightly when he told mi tat he is having a holiday! how good it is to b able to jus smile n feel happy from the bottom of ur heart rite? anw wanna meet up w the rest after my tuition, but i m too tired..sorry guys...need to catch some rest n save my energy for tml! haha

some photos b4 i go off...

Graduation!!


My Family!!!


My classmates!!!


CSCC peers!!!

i love this photo! nice cloudy background rite?

Also, Happy Birthday Youwei!!! i have alrdy lost count of ur age..oppz...stay young anw!

tata..tats all for nw...

i hope i will have a good sleep tonight =D

i guess i wanted to move on...but i do get struck here n there...

that feeling is weird...

sometime sweet, sometime bitter...

sometimes is bearable, but sometimes not...

so many thoughts...for jus a...

if he's doing fine? is he happy?

have de ans, n i will b fine?

anyway, i hope hui could move on too...i know she will, better den i do...